A system may generate abstracted graphs from a social relationship graph in response to a query. A query may identify a person for which permission has been obtains to collect their data. The abstracted graphs may include summary statistics for various relationships of the person. The relationships may include other persons, places, things, concepts, brands, or other object that may be present in a social relationship graph, and the relationships may be presented in an abstracted or summarized form. The abstracted form may preserve data that may be useful for the requestor, yet may prevent the requestor from receiving some raw data. When two or more people have given consent, the data relating to the consenting persons may be presented in a non-abstracted manner, while other data may be presented in an abstracted manner.