The present invention relates generally to an intelligent control and management matrix (ICMM), apparatus, system, and a method thereof. More particularly, the invention encompasses an inventive intelligent control and management matrix (ICMM), or icXengine, which is designed to help resolve a consistent issue seen in packet transmission technology, such as, for example, Ethernet technology, which is called contention. In one aspect the inventive ICMM, monitors, polls, and acts based on traffic flow information, to reduce contention, and to allow more data, video, voice, user content, etc., to pass through the Ethernet system. Thus, the inventive ICMM or icXengine allows for decision making, and traffic policing, based on bandwidth analytics, and a predetermined formulation or criteria.