Described herein is a codified social media messaging system, method and process based on pre-composed messages made of prefabricated icons that may be directed primarily at festive occasions and events. The prefabricated icons may comprise gender-specific prefabricated icons. The festive nature of these events may be incompatible with harmful messages, hence one function—that of a filter—imprinted in the design of positive prefabricated icons. Another function may aim to make messages as festive as the festive occasions they address. These functions may stem from the use of prefabricated icons, including animated icons, which act as guardians and catalysts of the positive character of the message. Within this codified messaging system, method and process, pre-composed messages made of prefabricated icons may perform the role of multi-use “connectors” between users. In some embodiments the system provides a system of memorabilia exchanges based on prefabricated icons.