The present invention provides a compound represented by formula (1) (in formula (1), R1 and R2 each independently represent a group represented by formula (2) or NHR0 (where R1 and R2 are not simultaneously NHR0), R0 represents any one of hydrogen, an alkyl group having 1-20 carbon atoms, an alkenyl group having 2-30 carbon atoms, an aryl group having 6-30 carbon atoms, an alkylaryl group having 7-30 carbon atoms, and an arylalkyl group having 7-30 carbon atoms, each R3 independently represents hydrogen or a hydrocarbon group having 1-30 carbon atoms, l represents an integer of 0-4, m represents an integer of 1-4 (where m is an integer of 2-4 in the case where R1 and R2 are a group represented by formula (2)), and each n independently represents an integer of 0-4, and, in formula (2), R4 represents a hydrocarbon group having 6-24 carbon atoms, and X1 and X2 each independently represent an oxygen atom or a sulfur atom).