A vehicle control device includes a detector configured to detect a specific operation performed on a vehicle from an outside of the vehicle, a vicinity situation recognizer configured to recognize a vicinity situation of the vehicle, and a driving controller configured to control steering, and acceleration or deceleration of the vehicle on the basis of a vicinity situation recognized, wherein, when the specific operation is detected by the detector before the vehicle arrives at a boarding area in automated exit processing, the driving controller is configured to bring the vehicle into a stopped state, the boarding area being area in which a user of the vehicle is allowed to get on the vehicle, the automated exit processing being process in which the vehicle is caused to exit from a parking lot and allowing the user to get on the vehicle in the boarding area.