Techniques for detecting inactive peers of a tunneled communication session, while allowing for a scalable tunneled protocol that includes split control plane nodes and data plane nodes are described herein. A method according to a technique described herein may include establishing a communication session between a first node and a second node in a network such that control plane traffic of the communication session flows through one or more control nodes and data plane traffic of the communication session flows through one or more data nodes different than the one or more control nodes. The method may also include receiving, at a control node, an indication from a data node that a probe message is to be generated. The probe message may be configured to determine data plane connectivity in the communication session. Additionally, the control node may generate the probe message and send it to the first node.