The present disclosure provides systems, methods, and computer-readable storage devices for enabling user management and control of responses of a virtual assistant for use in responding to questions related to multi-dwelling units without requiring reprogramming of the virtual assistant. To illustrate, a question to be answered by a virtual assistant may be received, and one or more responses to the question may be retrieved from a response database for the virtual assistant. A user interface (UI) may be provided that indicates the one or more responses. A user-selected response may be received via the UI, the user-selected response including a selected response from the one or more responses or a user-created response. An entry in the response database may be updated based on the user-selected response and a priority associated with the entry may be set, such as by increasing the priority based on user selection of the response.