A computer based system and method for automatically detecting frustration in an interaction, may include: identifying in the interaction using a set of linguistic rules, natural language patterns related to frustration, wherein the linguistic rules further define weights associated with the natural language patterns and rule metadata; reviewing the rule metadata associated with the identified natural language patterns to identify override attributes, wherein if the rule metadata does not include override attributes, then a frustration level in the interaction is determined based on the identified natural language patterns and weights associated with the identified natural language patterns; and if the rule metadata includes override attributes than the frustration level is determined based on the identified override attributes.