A method and apparatus system for calibrating a sound beam-forming system provides calibration of low cost alternatives to present array beam-forming systems. A test signal is supplied to multiple speaker drivers and is detected from a microphone signal supplied from a microphone positioned at a listening position. A signal relationship between surround channel information supplied to the multiple speaker drivers is adjusted in conformity with the detected signal so that the surround channel information is substantially attenuated along a direct path toward the listening position. The result is that the surround channel information is propagated in a directivity pattern having at least one primary lobe directed away from the listening position so that the surround channel information is diffused by reflection before reaching the listening position. The signal relationship may be controlled by multiple digital filters that maximize late vs. early response of the surround channel information.