The disclosed embodiments relate to an apparatus and method for managing flow control of a data transfer. An apparatus according to embodiments of the present invention may comprise a first protocol associated with a plurality of receive buffers, a second protocol adapted to manage the plurality of receive buffers for the first protocol, and a third protocol that determines whether one of the plurality of receive buffers is available for a data packet and (a) if one of the plurality of receive buffers is available, permits an acknowledgement packet to be sent to a node that sent the data packet, and (b) if one of the plurality of receive buffers is unavailable, drops the data packet, notifies the second protocol regarding the unavailability of the plurality of receive buffers, and withholds the acknowledgement packet.