Apparatus and methods calibrate and control detector gain in a Mueller-Muller timing detector. A main signal path includes a Mueller-Muller based timing error detector (MM TED). The main signal path generates a main error signal for clock recovery. A secondary signal path that includes a secondary MM TED. Each signal path samples soft symbols from a received signal. The sampling of the secondary MM TED is deliberately offset in time. A scale factor applied to the main error signal and to a secondary error signal is adaptively adjusted based on a comparison between the main error signal and the secondary error signal.