A system for monitoring and controlling the use of a mobile computing device is disclosed. The system includes a data server (104) containing a model of a road network specifying traffic routes at a selected location. A mobile wireless computing device (106) is configured to wirelessly communicate with the data server (104). An embedded accelerometer (116) and a GPS receiver (114) are included in the wireless device (106). A mobile device control module in communication with the wireless device (106) and the data server (104) provides a motion data cache (118) to record data from the GPS receiver (114) and accelerometer (116), an activity mode recognition module (120) configured to determine a type of activity based on the motion data cache (118), and a use permission module (112) in communication with the data server (104) to provide timing and location information at which the wireless device (106) can be used based on the activity mode.