A system is disclosed for creating, operating and participating in an online community that brings its users together via similar experiences (e.g., chronic illnesses) the users are having in their lives and/or the emotions those users are feeling during those experiences. The method may include receiving pane information, creating a pane including the pane information, wherein a counterpane comprises a plurality of panes, receiving a mood indicator representing a mood associated with the pane, associating the mood indicator with the pane, receiving a request for a requested mood, searching the counterpane for requested panes associated with the requested mood and distinguishing the requested panes.