A method, an apparatus, and a system for remotely controlling an electronic apparatus are provided. In the method, a control apparatus discovers at least one response apparatus in the same network and obtains an apparatus description of each response apparatus. According to a command list in the apparatus description, the control apparatus sends a control message requesting a service in the command list to the response apparatus, so as to control the response apparatus to execute an operation corresponding to the control message. Here, the command list records a plurality of services provided by the response apparatus.