In one embodiment, a message may be received from an initiating user over a computer network including an indication of a target user selected by the initiating user and of a plurality of other users selected by the initiating user. A message is then sent to the target user over the computer network prompting the target user to indicate a level of the target user's romantic interest toward each of the initiating user and the plurality of other users. Next, an indication of the target user's romantic interest toward each of the initiating user and the plurality of other users is received over the computer network. Then, a message is sent to the initiating user over the computer network notifying the initiating user of the target user's romantic interest toward the initiating user. Other user-associated questions/responses may also be used, thus anonymously soliciting the responses in a similar manner.