The embodiment of the invention discloses a vehicle-mounted communication control method and equipment. The method comprises the following steps of receiving a connection request sent by a mobile terminal, wherein the connection request is used for requesting the connection with the vehicle-mounted communication control equipment; detecting whether the mobile terminal is an authorized user of the vehicle-mounted communication control equipment or not; if so, connecting the vehicle-mounted communication control equipment with the mobile terminal; detecting whether the mobile terminal has a call incoming request or not; if so, displaying the call incoming request information on an automobile liquid crystal instrument; receiving a response instruction for performing responding to the call incoming request through automobile input equipment; sending a corresponding control instruction to the mobile terminal according to the response instruction, wherein the control instruction is used for controlling the mobile terminal to respond to the call incoming request. By using the method and the equipment, the call incoming request information can be displayed on the automobile liquid crystal instrument; the mobile terminal is operated and controlled to respond to the call incoming request through a press key on an automobile steering wheel or audio equipment.